2019-11-08 01:29

萨古鲁：父母对我们人生的影响有多大？

视频：《父母对我们人生的影响有多大？》

这个问题是在9月份“青年与真理”运动中，印度演员Lakshmi Manchu向萨古鲁提问的问题。对于这个问题，萨古鲁是如何回答的，请观看视频与阅读下面的文章。

Lakshmi Manchu: Namaskaram Sadhguru. I have a question. So, does the relationship that we have with our parents impact the course of our life. If yes; how best are we to nurture this?

Lakshmi Manchu：您好Sadhguru（萨古鲁），我有一个问题：我们和父母的关系是否会影响我们的人生轨迹？如果是，我们应该如何更好地培养这种关系？

Sadhguru: Namaskaram Lakshmi! Well, in the yogic science as we look at life, we look at a human life as a full cycle, if one lives up to eighty-four years of age. In this cycle of life which involves a little over thousand-and-eight cycles of moon, the first quarter is when the influence of the parents are upon us energetically. In terms of karmic influence, only up to twenty-one years of age, can parentage influence us. After that, we are not supposed to be influenced by them.

Sadhguru（萨古鲁）：你好Lakshmi！在瑜伽科学里，我们把人的一生视为一个完整的循环。如果一个人活到84岁，这个循环经历了超过 1008个月亮周期。头四分之一的阶段，父母会在能量层面影响我们。从业力方面来说，父母的影响一直会持续到21岁为止。在那之后，我们就不该受他们影响。

But for whatever they have done, first of all they have brought us into this world and many other things out of their love and involvement they have done. We can live in gratitude. After twenty-one years of age, one should not be influenced by the patterns of parentage, because the important thing is that this is a fresh life. This should not be a repetition of what has happened in the previous generation. So, to a maximum of twenty-one years of age, there is a karmic influence which definitely influences everybody. But beyond twenty-one years of age, there is no such thing.

但对于他们所做的一切……首先他们把我们带到这个世界，还有很多他们出于爱和投入所做的事情，我们可以一直心怀感恩。在21岁以后，一个人不应该受到父母模式的影响。因为很重要的一点是，这是一个崭新的生命，这个生命不应该重蹈前几代人的轨迹。所以，最多到21岁，每个人都会受到业力影响，但在那之后，就不存在这回事了。

It may be purely psychological dependence or may be financial and physi… social dependence on parents for a whole lot of people, but essentially at the age of twenty-one, this bond breaks. But after that, it’s a bond of relationship, of love, of gratitude, those things can always stay forever. So, we should not look for parental nurture after twenty-one years of age. We can only live in gratitude for whatever they have done.

可能是纯粹的心理依赖，或者，很多人对父母仍有经济或社会上的依赖。但根本上，到了21岁，这个纽带就该被打破。但在那之后，这种亲情、爱和感恩的连结感可以永远持续下去。所以，21岁以后我们不应该寻求父母的滋养。对于他们所做的一切，我们只能带着感恩活着。

视频原文链接：youtu.be/z0kA-5I0jco